The unexpected experience of conflict and tragedy is an essential factor in shaping our identity and defining who we are. Sometimes abuse turns into a solution. If you look at the above paragraph, nothing physical changed.
Sometimes we're happier then ever. Sometimes the law is cruel.
It's some destination that we have to reach. The key to shifting your perspective is to remember what you're aiming for.
So Monday morning I got up and decided to see if this epiphany was really an epiphany! I was considering not going to college so that I could become a professional gamer. If you look in the mirror and you point at your physical self, your reflection in the mirror will point at itself.